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Originally Posted by online user
Ah, this is one of my pet peeves...no doubt, from when I was little when my mother blamed me for stuff my little sisters did. Haven't found a satisfactory resolution, either. I do know that what others think of me is more a product of themselves, not the real me, so it's easier to accept now. I constantly tell myself that what others think of me is none of my business. What they say about me says more about themselves than me. That helps. But you have to let yourself believe it.
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Firstly I love your avatar ! THAT IS living with a cat
Apart from that thank you so much for your response and for understanding of this issue. Unfair blame can generate some very strong feelings and is best dealt with right then and there I think. Also such feelings can be very potent in how one interacts with the people involved from then on ! What is your opinion about this part of the issue ?
Thank you,
Regards,
Max Ra .