I do my best not to judge people (T noticed this about me as well), so no I wouldn't. I would take you in my arms, and be there for you. I would allow you to hurt and accept that it was something you did and regret. And I would not ever bring it up again, because I know it would hurt you.
TB you deserve that same kind of compassion from yourself! And it might feel good to let yourself experience kindness, compassion, non-judgment and acceptance from your T. People make mistakes. We face situations that we aren't prepared for and we don't have the experience or skills to deal with them. Our judgment is sometimes messed up by addiction or mental illness or whatever else. You're working hard to become the person you want to be. You're more than your worst mistakes. It's okay whatever it is.
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