Hi, I need some advice.
I will try to keep this short. I am married for 11 years and 3 children. I was at the WTC on 9/11 and my family went through the horror of not knowing if I was ok or not until I finally returned home later that night. 3 weeks later I found I was pregnant with my 3rd child. It seems like these two events set off something in my husband that put him through some type of a mid-life crisis I'll call it. We were both very nervous about having a 3rd child, unsure if we were financially stable and of course, what was going on in the world at the time. I was going through the trauma of seeing first hand what happened on that horrible day, but yet I was trying to be understanding to what he was going through.
Well, I said I'd keep it short, so I'll jump right to it. The wife of one of his friends told me he cheated on me. He denies it.
I can't get past it. I would never think he would do anything like that, but he was going through something and all of it fits.
It's been a rough year, and he hasn't validated any of my feelings. Things are now back to "normal" and he is himself again. I am very confused, hurt and very alone. I will never know the truth, and don't know how I will ever have closure.