And what if you're not officially diagnosed by a pdoc? I'm no doctor but i'm not incapable of seeing what symptoms/criteria a specific disorder has, would my opinion matter at all to a pdoc?

I just never had a major reason to go and get help because I literally just stay at home and avoid any problems I may have.. i'm not leaving that 'comfort zone' and as soon as i do all of these issues come into play, but that's exactly what i look to avoid