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Originally Posted by krh1973
Hey all.
Since my last post Mathew has decided to purchase some baby items like a new highchair and crib, I don't think this is something that is going away too quickly. My wife still is not bothered. The same goes for his siblings they all are of the mind that if that's what he wants then let him be. Am I wrong? The rest of the family think I'm being old fashioned. They tell me to chill out. I can't help but question? Any suggestions greatly accepted. I did read the post previously posted by Lynn P in which she linked a previous thread started by unconstruct. While this was somewhat informative it doesn't rally help with the dilemma I find myself in. How am I supposed to turn a blind eye or even take any active role in this. I am somewhat worried and confused and also angry.
Many thanks in advance krh1973
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I understand how conflicted you must feel and can see how the other thread doesn't help you from a parents perspective. I wanted you to read it, so you could understand the fetish more. I think it might be helpful to handle this from the view - this is a private fetish he should use discretion with. Most people don't share this fetish with loved ones unless its a partner who accepts it. Your son needs to accept this is you /your wifes house and you don't appreciate baby furniture being set up and you also don't want him to do this around the family. How on earth is he going to sit n a highchair?
For example if your son likes snakes or guns but another family member isn't comfortable ...then he shouldn't buy guns/snakes. If you and your wife are into being swinging - you're not about to bring the couples into your house. If he wants to wear diapers in private, then fine but he needs to do it in private minus the furniture. No I don't think you're old fashioned - this doesn't fall under that category lol.