I am still confused about what trigger means. I always thought it meant that if one of us was triggered and felt unsafe one of the protectors would step in and protect us. That would mean that the young one is stepping out to protect except she is the one who is feeling unsafe. It is her panic that is caused by the sound. So I don't understand that. What good does it do for her to step out and be afraid and unsafe. I can't reason that out in my head.