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Originally Posted by Claritytoo
This is the first time that one of my young ones was already present when she heard the sound. She panicked and tried to run but others told her to stay in the room. Usually when someone is triggered and they feel afraid one of the protectors will step in front of them and switch to deal with the trigger. This time no one stepped in front of her, she didn't leave on her own and when I tried to come forward she wouldn't move. But she was freaked out and wanted to run. Again in session today the same sound happened and she tried to push past me to be out but I wouldn't let her. I blocked her from coming out because I didn't want to go through the same freaking out as last time. Why would she come out toward the sound when it causes her panic??? I am not understanding this.
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Originally Posted by Claritytoo
Why would she come out toward the sound when it causes her panic??? I am not understanding this.
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because that may be what her job, purpose, reason for being is. Alters with DID are created for a reason...
example my alter Della was created to take on the pain of certain sexual activities, to feel and show those emotions associated with by having to go through those abuses at such a young age. she was created to do this so that I could continue to live a life free of the pain, emotions and memory of being abused in that way.
only that alter can tell you why she was created, what her job, purpose and reason for being is.
suggestion...since you have this close connection to her where you can feel/know when shes trying to take control and you have this strong connection to where you have the ability to prevent her from taking over control, most likely you are able to communicate with her. So ask her why that sound scares her, why she comes out even though that sound scares her and ask her how you can help her to feel safer....