Well to start of I have ocd, and I have been working on my issues for a minute!! My mom moved in with my dad, my fiancee and myself a while back, because she lost her job. Since moving in she has only contributed once for the electric bill. This is very upsetting to my fiancee, because he works full time, my father is ill, and I am a full time student. She also undermines my mental issues, and has very little understanding for ocd and panic attacks. I guess am torn between being a nice person, and not wanting to hurt her feelings, and getting really stressed about our current financial situation. Due to the added stress, I have been having more frequent panic attacks, and doing worse in school. Does anyone have any kind of advice on how I can tell her politely how I feel, while still getting the message across?? Thanks!!
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