I mention the child sexual abuse because I have dissociative Identity disorder. when upset or uncomfortable I act out the memories that have been separated and stored at my unconscious level of thinking. One second I can be fully aware and relaxed and the next I am throwing things, kiching, hitting, biting,crying and any number of other things directed at the percieved danger - my boyfriend attempting to have sex with me. By telling the boyfriend I am a rape survivor he knows right away without alot of explaining and so on on my part that we need to go at my speed not his, and if I say stop or no thats that we stop right away.