Therapy is an intense, emotional bonding situation. It is normal to feel connected....it is a relationship like no other. There is an excellent book called, "Boundaries." We all need them....physical and emotional boundaries are necessary in life. She didn't "catch" you....you aren't her child and you weren't doing anything wrong. Feelings aren't right or wrong, they simply are. If she doesn't recognize what she did was wrong/inappropriate, I don't know how you will get past this. A good thing for you to talk about with your t!