hi there. I saw your thread. I feel badly for you. I know this must be terribly confusing. I just want you to knw you don't have to be a girlie girl to be a girl. I have never been a girlie girl. I often shop in the mens department. The clothes are more affordable an I like them. I have never palyed with dolls, wore make up, or wnated to wear dresses. I remember playing with the boys and playing with tractors and cars. I took shop classes in school. I can weld, drive tractors, work on motors. There is nothing wrong about being well versed in the male world. I absolutely love my cow boy boots and work boots. I recieved make up as a gift and have a very hard time wearing it. It just feels to girlie. So I don't wear it often. I never fix my hair up. But I am undoubtedly female. I am married to a construction worker. And he embraces my knowledge of male things. It is nice to be able to send me to the hard ware store and know I will make it back with the right things. I have 3 kids, and a husband. I am a stay at home mom. But I still do guy stuff. My H loves someone to do guy stuff with.

It is not terrible being geared more towards male likes. I was able to find someone who finds that quality unique and who likes it. There is hope. Finding a good T might help. Keep talking to us here. We are a very open group of folks and I applaud you for haveing the courage to speak up on this matter. Best of luck to you dear.