I don't think in the time I've been here that I've seen anyone claim to be "cured" ever. Now tbh I don't think that you can cure soemthing like this. it's more of "are you getting along well in life in spite of your traits?" or "are you coping with them well?"

For me, right now I dont' think it's a cure I've found but I have found a bit of peace and unfortunately I think I know what the cause is... it's that I'm not in any kind of relationship that is too deep and meaningful, I'm not in love, not attached to anyone. I think that's the main thing.. but the unfortunate part is I do like being atttached, in love and all that..

I think there is some peace and balance people can find in spite of the traits of BPD and even to the point of feeling like it's in "remission" for lack of a better word. I don't think anything is permanent and even when one finds this place, i think there always stands the risk to relapse if something out of the ordinary happens. It's a life long journey IMO.