oh staaahhhp.. you know I can't do that. In all my life in spite of being married 2x, I have yet to actually ask a woman out. Never dated, never done that kind of thing, it's foreign to me. Fact is that's part of why, I'm convinced, that I end up with the wrong women. I wait for them to approach me, and the problem with that is that the ones that do that can be the over bearing and just a bit too assertive for what will last for me. I need an introvert and they aren't the ones that tend to do that.