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Originally Posted by allme
Thanks but I just feel like doing it to teach him a lesson....he has to learn he can't treat me like this, I think I am a control freak and the fact he has turned off his phone and not telling me when he will be back is driving me nuts and I feel in such a panic. I am doing that thing again where I press redial over and over again .....I did it for2 hours and than I came here but unless I keep redialling I feel really panicy  |
How is he treating you? Really? Stop and think about how you might be treating him. I learned a long time ago that people are not going to beg me to do things with them. If I want to do something I need to say yes and do it. I also have learned that no matter how much I think that people should know what I mean, they cannot read my mind. Find something to do other than hitting that redial button to relieve the panic. I know that you can. You've been around here awhile, surely there is something in your toolbelt that you can use? I know it's hard, I really, really do, and my heart just breaks for you because I have been right where you are. Try, allme, try.
