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Originally Posted by critterlady
It doesn't sound to me like therapy was the cause of the argument at all. It sounds a lot more like the cause was your partner's almost crippling insecurity. She violated your privacy in a huge way, but is blaming you for your (very normal) connection with your therapist. I think this is definitely something you should work through with your therapist.
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Thank you for saying this. It is what I needed to hear. She has turned it around, that I am the one who did something wrong, not her. I think you are right about her insecurity...probably what we need to work on together if we/I can get to that point...right now I'm too caught up in my own emotions to be to that point.