Hamster, thank you for your honesty. You just confirmed my greatest fear, until I cry those tears out there will be a feeling of pain.

AHHHHH losing control, not being able to contain myself, and not keeping my composure, AAAAHHHHH

But I do think you are right. And consolation would indeed counter productive. It may well be an attempt to suppress tears.

Hamster, I appreciate you honesty and your opinion. Some times the truth just stinks.