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I tend to take that into consideration... but I also consider other things.
When I DO get to talk with them - do we both talk about our lives, or is it always about them? Can I count on them if I really need them? Do they message me for help with things but never just to chat? Do I KNOW (not guess, actually know) that they keep up with their other friends who don't live nearby. Do they spend a lot of time on the computer and just can't be bothered to message me first?
Those tend to help show me if it's one-sided or not.
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