I think generally speaking sex is viewed differently between men and women. For women it's more special and intimate and loving. For most men, it's just a way to get off. No need for intimacy or love, tho we can fake it when needed. So with that in mind. If you were my daughter I would advise you to wait until you find a guy you feel comfortable with and one you think you can be with for ever before you have sex. At the very least understand that it can be very different for men and women. So you don't get hurt.