I have a problum. I am almost to the point of needing locked away to keep me from harming my self. I am not sure if i know yall well emough to tell my problum

Ok here goes, I am beibg acused of molesting my kids. I never did a thing to them. They are saying detailes that i did (whid i never did) and i have a feeling it was her ex-husband that did this because she has him bath them and whin she has someone else bath them he fliped out.
I am at a loss