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Originally Posted by Readytostop
Would you have sex with someone after they told you that they no longer find you sexually attractive?
If yes would it impact your self esteem?
Would your response be different if it was a spouse or partner and not just someone you were dating?
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What would you gain from having sex with that person? I would feel used because I would feel like they just wanted to have sex with someone and I was there to have sex with, but they weren't attracted to me...that just sounds hurtful.
I feel like this question might come with strings attached....because I think if its a spouse who makes a comment like this there could be more to it than just that blanket statement (like unresolved anger or resentment, etc), and if you want to stay in the marriage, you should go to couple's counseling, STAT.
If it's someone I was dating, I doubt I would give them the time of day let alone let them TOUCH me after that comment.
