When you feel like you have yourself in a better place, you can always just date (in fact, I think that's probably pretty healthy, once you are ready) but not put any pressure on yourself to be sexually active. You'll know if you want to get THAT serious when "he" comes along, although sadly he probably won't have a crown on or be atop a white horse with a kingdom to rule...I know I wish it were that easy to figure out. Anyway, just have fun dating and meeting people (again, take the time to take care of yourself first), and don't put any pressure on yourself! And most of all, don't let anyone else pressure you, either!