There must be something in the water where you live, Miswimmy. So many "professionals" behaving unprofessionally! This one talking bad about that one, this one revealing her relationships with the others, etc....sheesh!
I'm with the rest of the crowd; listen to your heart. It does seem like you have had quite a few instances where you just don't click with this T. Life's too short, and therapy is too important, to try to get things done with someone you don't like or respect. Lift anchor and sail on!