Bizi, you are so right, location shouldn't be an issue, and it's not for both of us.
it goes deeper than that and our moving back west it actually has to do with taking a much needed distance from one of our relatives that it's making everybody's life a living hell. Too triggering for me and too much frustration for my hubby.
We know we can succeed anywhere I think that is why it isn't so hard to move back.
((((((((((((hugs back))))))))))))))