It doesn't sound too good. I'm very bad about going with my gut feeling. I would consider going ahead and meeting and see what your gut tells you when you're there in person. I can usually tell quickly if I'm going to work well with someone.

I would still keep calling around and maybe even meet another T or 2 just to see who gives you the most "warm fuzzies." Then, if you meet her and still don't like her, you'll be ahead of the game at finding another T.

Good luck.