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Originally Posted by Readytostop
If you are young and not in a committed relationship... And just dating... In about 99% of the cases if a guy asked you out on a date he is attracted to you. BUT in the end it wont be physical attraction that keeps him around...it will be your heart and your mind and that is what newbies dont realize and they get their hearts broken by sleeping with guys way to soon...
When a guy treats you like you hang the moon and is committed and gives compliments that are from the heart and truely is looking out for your best interests and not his own...then you have a keeper.
To answer your question... Yes that is basically how it works but sometimes they can be thinking of other things or replaying images of porn and stuff too in their minds....that is why porn really hurts relationships...
Wait for someone who proves they are worthy of your love.
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The only time that I think that happened, I didn't even know I was being asked on a date until the end of the date and I sort of ran away and he didn't really speak to me again. I don't know why they try to trick you like that...
I'm sure I seem much younger than I really am. I'm in my mid-20's....so I shouldn't sound like I'm 16 anymore but I do. Heck, I think 16-year-old's know more than I do.
And don't worry about things happening to quickly for me...if anything a guy would give up as it's going too slowly.
I was sort of thinking that porn might do it...so I guess I was sort of right. I never really thought that porn would affect a relationship that way, but that makes sense.
But you said that a guy stays around for something other than physical...so does everyone become unattractive to their partner at some point but stays because of other stuff? Are there any other things in your relationship that makes you guys attractive to each other?
I always thought that you didn't have necessarily an obligation to have sex with your husband, but if you didn't you were risking them cheating on you...that seems to be common as I read about similar situations on here. But of course I don't know from personal experience.