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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
Im gonna get blasted for this by everyone else who is drinking the koolaid, but this helplessness is not serving you well. I am sorry you have endured this abuse for so long but at some point you are going to have to weight the consequence with the decison. You are no longer a child and if you want to continue with school and tell your mom to bug off you can, its called loans and I have a sh-it load to prove it can be done. I realize you are not looking for solutions only empathy so I will avoid this thread moving forward, but know that you are NOT helping your cause or situation by acting as though you have no way out because you do.
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I could also be dead so you go ahead and tell me what is and isn't helping my cause. I would be delighted to hear what someone who doesn't even know my first name her opinion about the major life choices I make to support myself psychologically and financially. You don't know who I am, what I do, or anything about me beyond what I have posted here and you certainly don't know enough to claim that I am "helpless".
I am well aware of what a loan is or how to apply to get a job and that I am not legally obligated to my family at all. I'm not stupid. I made the choice to do what I am doing based off of a multitude of factors. I made the decision to come back here and follow that model. I don't know if that is a good decision to keep on making and I am not in a good situation to really try and figure it out.
So thank you for your input.