I have 2 T's and the need to talk about sex has never arouse. Not sure why we would talk about it. I had an abusive ex-husband an they never asked if sex was forced on me and I had 2 step fathers and I was never asked if I remember being touch inappropriately. I also do not feel any need at all to discuss theses subjects.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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