I agree with kirby.

I think closure is important and i think you need to do this, whether is goes to plan or happens at all is another thing so I think it would be a good idea to have a 'plan B' as I think there is an element of you wanting to explain yourself to get that closure so you need a strategy to deal with it if he doesn't want to or doesn't accept your explanation.

Good luck cheekychops
Fluey x