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Old Aug 25, 2013, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
growlithing: I suspect that you have experience with people bringing up their own unresolved issues in the form of negative comments on you.

You are handling the situation here effectively.
It's moments like this when I am glad that I grew up with enough insight to have figured out what projection was by the time I was 12- even though I didn't have the word for it until I took an extremely basic high school psych class. My mom doesn't do anything but project.

I tried mentioning that some people are really starting to rub up against a very serious trigger for me by making me feel weak but I think that was just kinda lost. But that's okay because I know better than to let someone's projections actually make me do anything to myself.
Thanks for this!
Bill3, feralkittymom