Hi, Izzy. Welcome to PC! Feel free to post anytime. Are you afraid that your mom will reject you or not take you seriously if you tell her how you've been feeling? Maybe write her a letter first and then follow up with a conversation. That would help take the pressure of what might seem like a confrontation. Age 12 is a really, really hard time. I remember all too well. Yes, adolescence is difficult, but that is no reason to dismiss problems you're having as inconsequential. Now is the time to deal with this.

Your mom may not know what to do or how to help her. So, be sure to let her know what you think would help you best. Do you want to have someone to talk to? Do you want feedback and advice? Would you rather talk to a professional therapist? Group therapy can be effective.

Good luck! We're here to give you encouragement to do what will help you. Keep posting!