I wasn't as active in school as you, wow I wish I could have been. Anyways, it might not be ADD/ADHA or maybe it is. Maybe you just have no time to take time for yourself and need it. I went through something like that a year ago.

As for medication, I'm sorry but it's not like you take these a few times a day for a few months and your cured! It would be an on going thing. They would first put you on some medication and play with the dose till they find what works for you. If they think you can manage without medication they might just have you speak with a doctor about how to held stress better or just everyday to day living and how you handle it. They give you tips on how you could make it better. Sometimes you just need someone to listen and understand.

I think your parents just want the best for you not what "IS" best for you... I don't know.