Sorry you're upset over this man. Is this the same guy named Jake who ripped the blanket off you, took pics and asked you "who's c*** you were sucking?"
http://forums.psychcentral.com/relat...-confused.html

If this is the same guy, it may be better to keep this on one thread. This guy sounds like bad news and its better not to be involved with him. If he's saying things like this about your dad, he should consider letting him go. He's too pushy invading and a loose canon. He shouldn't be getting involved with your family personally. It could be you were drawn to him because he was outgoing and in control but this is backfiring now.