I have one with PDD NOS, and another who they initially Dx'd the same, however now they are trying to say it is a mood disorder. I understand your pain with childcare. I understand the inability to find sustainable income due to childcare. I am looking at dropping out of school by the end of this week as a result.

Depending on the severity of his symptoms there are programs out there that help with childcare of special needs kids. These programs are funded by medical assistance, which your son automatically qualifies for as per his Dx.

Also child support needs to be established. There are child support calculators that indicate how much is expected as per your state. You can find them through a google search. You can also file through domestic relations to make sure those funds will come to you every month.

My husband was emotionally draining. Every argument was my fault. He is now involved with another woman. I'm not going to say this will be easy. In fact it has been one of the darkest times in my life. But you need to be safe. You need to be strong. ANd establish a support system. I understand not wanting to be involved in a relationship again. I am just emotionally worn down.