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Old Aug 26, 2013, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by poptart316 View Post
Okay so I went there.. we sat there awkwardly for a while and hardly said a word to each other. He said he wanted to be friends, which is what he meant by "talking about things" he wanted to talk about moving forward with our friendship.. he's okay with cuddling and okay with having sex, so I guess we're "friends with benefits" now.. nothings really changed.. we had sex, he got me some food and we watched TV and then I stayed the night, which was a typical day for us when we were together, the only difference now is that he's not technically my "boyfriend" which still kind of hurts. I mean it's just typical, every guy I've been with is willing to **** me but never wants to be with me and idk why. I'll probably go along with the whole "friends with benefits" thing, I mean like I said things are pretty much the same.
Whoa! Personally I would tell him to go to hell! Don't let him use you like that! SO he takes all the good stuff but none of the other stuff that comes with it? Sounds very selfish to me and I hope you have the strength to tell him to jog on. If you are friends then be friends but must remove the 'benefits'. If not for anything but your own self respect!
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