hey Candybear,
i agree with the others that have said you cant be sure what the T was doing when she answered. when i was looking for my T i rang her cell and she was quite abrupt and scary too. turns out she was sitting in traffic talking on the phone and when i met her in person she was such a dote. lovely and we ve clicked really well. she didnt ask me any questions really at that first call either but asked a lot when we met. id say it cant hurt to meet at least once. in fact, unless your instincts are screaming no after that meeting, id agree with the others that meeting a few times might be a good idea before you make a decision. if it makes you feel more comfortable though do keep calling around as well and you can even set up more appointments so that if it doesnt work out with her you have alternatives without having to wait for ages again. i did the same thing and then cancelled two other appointments when i clicked with this T.
i really hope it works out with her. id love to hear how it goes when you do meet. good luck!
ps myself makes a good point about knowing what you want to say during the first session. it can make it a lot easier!