{{{zygolover}}} First of, Welcome to PC!
Now, congrats!!! I can tell you one thing. I'm bipolar and my husband has ADD; It's not easy at times, when we both feels frustated things can go wrong really fast, but, I think that to make any relationship work, you need to be willing to leave your selfishness on the side.
One really good thing that you both can enjoy is the understanding of the illnes, and with that, if there is really love involved you'll make each others better.
Best of luck~