Sounds like you guys are having a difficult time but you are on the right track with a sleep schedule and meds.

I can relate to the cognative problems. I have a terrible memory, I forget important things and need to put alarms and reminders in my phone constantly. Some days I will forget to eat, or even forget to go to bed. I find seroquel makes my memory worse. It is so bad on seroquel that I rarely take it and avoid it if possible.

I hope you can work together to get him stable. Goodluck.