Haha. I think this is a surprisingly common problem!

I don't hate you! I can't hate someone of whom I do not know. :P

Oh, by the way, I do obsess over E-Mails, texts, comments, etc. I obsess over what I said, what I should have said, what I didn't say, how I said what I said, how [person] might see it, and how [person] might see it, or how both [person] and [person] might see it, or how... etc. Then, if my OCD/anxiety is bad at the time, I'll end up obsessing over the grammar, spelling, word choices, how often certain words are repeated, and so on. Sounds like you have OCD, too.

There are reasons why you might not get a reply to this thread:

1. Not many people are online at any given time.

2. Not many people are online at any given time, that use this forum.

3. People might not know how to respond.

4. Some people might be too shy to post.

5. Some people might just be too new and unsure of any posting rules.

6. Some people are perhaps unfamiliar with your particular issue, and therefore do not feel the need to post.

7. Aliens may have invaded their computer area.

8. They may have just spontaneously combusted, upon discovered the meaning of life.

9. They may be AFK.

10. The Borg from Star Trek may have assimilated them.

11. They may have discovered a Star Gate and gone to another planet, without means to return.

...and I'm sure there are a great many other possibilities - in actuality, contrary to your obsessions, it is logically far less likely that complete strangers are going to "hate" you based on one small thread on a site where people open up about all sorts.

Think logically - in my opinion, logic is one of your best weapons against OCD and anxiety.

You can refresh, now. :P