... it would be too hard to ask not just ME, but OTHERS, what what I am and what pronouns I use? It seems like you're underestimating the ability and capability of the human mind. With that idealization, we may as well not ask what each others names are. Has that been difficult for you here on the forums? Or even in person during introductions?

I shouldn't have to "state" anything to be respected. I shouldn't have to "state" what I am and not for the comfort of others. I was merely pointing out that this is a habit people should get themselves into as it can cause dysphoria in genderqueer/trans* people.