the guy just LOVES the chase...when he's chasing and pursuing you, you are the most interesting and intriguing woman in the world to me, and the second the chase ends and he gets you back, he loses interest...if you truly want him to desire you and NOONE else, make him SWEAT...make winning you as his woman, the hardest job for him...not easy as pie...also, if you're friends with him on facebook, post lots and lots of pictures of you on dates hanging out with OTHER men and having a PHENOMENAL time...worked for Dutchess Kate who married Prince William didn't it...Prince William dumped her,...did she sit at home, nope, she went out clubbing and dancing with her girlfriends and was photographed dancing with other guys and all the mags in England posted caps under the photos with the quote "Will Who?"...needless to say, it drove Prince William crazy jealous and there months later HE PUT A RING ON IT!...so I say post post post away on facebook, let him see that YOU are not sweating him, nor his match.com profile if he has one, let him see that you have DECREASED his importance in your life, and that you are enjoying your time with other attractive men, trust me he will be filled with jealousy and blowing up your phone worse than now.. take care, be blessed