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Originally Posted by IndieVisible
your 20 years old, in 10 years you will prolly be married and have kids and forget about this discussion. Why are u making it so serious? People here do not care who/what you are. Stop looking for things to argue about and try to enjoy life a little bit. I don't care if your asexual, bisexual, gay, str8, trans, or even a android. I don't care. I think most people here don't care. You are among friends here! Don't u get that?
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I am 23 years old, I am unable to have children, and I put my education before relationships or marriage. I will not forget this discussion because this is something I face EVERY DAY. Be that someone groping me in the grocery store to see "what I have" or someone telling me I deserve the frustrations because I am different.
So don't you get why this is upsetting me so much? All I wanted to do was start a conversation and maybe answer constructive questions with constructive answers so people COULD understand me and others like me more, and could go away with knowing more than they did before. Instead, I am told to "listen". I am told that I am "provoking". I am told that no one cares, yet people her admitted to assuming gender based on a bloody icon. I am serious because this is what I have to do everyday in my "real life" where I am not anonymous and people are free to do what they will to me because I am different.
I was actually enjoying my day. I was actually, truly and honestly happy for the first time in a very long while. And this thread, some of you, completely ruined that for me.
I have friends on this forum. And those friends, they have never spoken to me this way before. And they never will.
DrSkipper, thank you for being the sole constructive thinker here. I will make a thread on this board giving explanations for all gender identities and what they mean. I will do it when I am not triggered.
I'm done here for now.