To be honest, "getting real tired of it" followed with lamenting that know one knows your true identity and how it's everyone's fault that you're not being treated the way you want to be treated is not the proper footing for a constructive debate. To be angry with people at the grocery store who criticize your sex and sexuality is normal. To be angry that people on the internet, where no one has avatars that represent their true sex or sexuality (I've seen guys with fairies and butterflies as their avatar, and me with gay men as my avatar), are unaware of others true sex/sexuality is rather provoking. A problem I see with LGBT in general, being from Cali and going through a bisexual phase myself, is that when some of them are so well educated on who they are, they assume that because others aren't aware of the problems they face that they are insensitive, when really they are just uneducated. So a debate with others who are uneducated isn't much of a debate.

Like I said, creating a thread specifically for genderfluid and genderqueer would be really helpful for those who aren't aware with what they deal with, etc.