Maybe I've gone paranoid due to worry??? But I think my depressed partner may have gone back to America to try and make himself 'feel better'. He did the same last year. When we had got back from America last year he had become seriously depressed, and went back to America after a couple of weeks on the pretence that he needed to sort out his motorbike. We had gone round America on a motorbike and at the end of our trip he had left it there to sell on consignment. He kept saying the guy at the garage he had left it at was an idiot and he needed to sort it out. Anyway he went over there, and basically spent a week and a half laying in bed in a motel room. He was emailing me telling me he had the flu, he didn't know what was wrong with him. Anyway he came home after a week and a half, tail between his legs, having got no more money for his bike, stating he was too ill to do anything. I actually at that stage thought he did have the flu, but a few days following his return (he was so happy to see me) he bounced back and his flu/ depression was over.
We have been back from America 2 weeks from this years trip. He has been very depressed since his return, saying he is pathetic and what am I doing with him and I should walk away. And on Saturday just gone, he told me to go away and leave him alone, and I haven't heard from him since. His australian mobile phone is turned off. The fact that I haven't heard from him, makes me think that he may have been in transit from Australia to America. That he may have gone back there again to make himself feel better. He has got the motorbike we used this year at a garage in Vegas on consignment waiting for it to sell. The difference this year is that the bike is half mine, so the proceeds of the sale are half mine. When he was still talking to me, just before his depression worsened, he had said to me, he would get my money for me, so that I could 'walk away'.
What do you guys think?