Hi, Sky, welcome to PsychCentral (PC).

It does sound like you are in a tough place. What do you picture 5 years down the road for yourself and child? Do you work or have a skill to support yourself and child with? I would not marry, would not trust this man to help and support you and your child as you have not found him to be supportive in the past. He does not sound like good "partner" material. We become attached to anyone we spend a lot of time with and it sounds like he has worked on making you more attached by getting rid of your own social life. Find your anger at his manipulation and figure out a way to move to a better "base" place so you can start building a life for yourself and child.