Big Mama, I cried so hard when you talked...... that is me too. I have sex but just to please my partner. I try so hard to like it I try so hard to make the other person happy I just cant get into it or even pretend to like it. I was married for 10 years so I know it is possible I have 5 kids so you know I have done it at least 4 time (a little humor I have twins ) but humor aside thank you so so so so so much. I thought I was so alone in these feelings. I may never fix this I may end up alone but knowing that someone else is out there that knows what I am going through and I am so sorry you feel like this but I am so very happy you told me so I am no longer alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!