In addition to the gay men and the geeks, I go for the big cuddly teddy-bear types. Most of the men I've ever had a serious relationship with have been great big bears. Those who weren't, were gay or geeks. (Yes, I did at one point in my life marry a gay man.) Some have been a combination of any two. I don't think I've ever had a serious relationship with a man who was all three.

In general I tend to be out of the mainstream with my taste in men, maybe because I'm selecting on something other than pure animal attraction. Those muscly, flexing, pecs and biceps other women scream over do nothing to grab my interest. I see nothing sexy about icons like Fabio, or Tim McGraw, or Brad Pitt, or Johnny Depp. I've mentioned that my husband doesn't really zing me, but he needn't feel slighted, because an evening with the Chippendales wouldn't either. As I said in an earlier post--beefcake, yawn.