hi,
ya, i went to s.i.a.(servivors of incest anonymos) with a friend of mine (sponsor) in a different 12 step program. she went trough a lot too. any way, we stoped going to s.i.a. because we talked too much a bout doing something to the perps running around town.
i haven't come up with anything that would work yet. this forum is great ! it's like group, only unseen. i don't like changing infront of people. i've always tried to hide it. here i feel safer to be myselves.
benny