oh Perna lol I do work....I do ask about her book titles etc...but I would never be the sort of person to bring things into the session...I think the feelings that are brought up in our safe room are enought for me too bring in...I've thought hard and long about whether I will be truely comfortable and am coming to the conclusion that I can never dismiss the damage done to me in my life and maybe "comfortable" comes in degrees and I will settle for less and be pleased I even made it to therapy...yes that will do for me...