I take Venlafaxine. It works great for me. I don't have nearly the sexual side effects (anorgasmia) nor am I just numb. I still have emotions compared to the other antidepressants I took which just made me not care about anything.

If you start taking it though, take it at the same time every day and don't miss a day ... the withdrawals are horrible. It's like have a stroke and migraine all at once.