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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Very insightful tbh, GGirl  it is very true in that people (not just here) look for what they can get from others and I think this is human nature too.. but it's not only a good way for those that have few friends to think but general way to think in life itself no matter your disorder!
Idk if you're asking this but I guess I will add it anyway. When I think about what I can bring to any relationship, I know that I tend to be a bit more laid back than many people in many ways... I know that on more than a few occasions I've been there for people as a listening ear and sometimes I give good advice. Although I take life very seriously a bit of the time, I have a fun side that can (try to) be funny, and just "mess around" sometimes, joking and laughing which for me at least is very important in a friendship. That's all I'm saying though.. for fear of sounding "inflated" about myself which I don't think I am  |
I enjoy "playing around" and am usually not too bad at it, but I'm at a point where it's sometimes difficult. I think I can contribute to a light-hearted conversation once it's initiated and such, but the ingenuity just isn't there right now to come up with things spontaneously. Hopefully that will change as my situation changes. I've changed a lot in the last few months, and I don't like most of it.